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Eating In Silence

It’s Foodie Friday time, and since it’s also Pearl Harbor Day I have Japan on my mind.

Tonkotsu ramen

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It’s interesting how in the 71 years since that infamous day so many things Japanese have become a part of our American culture.  One of these is ramen, the diet staple of so many college students and budding entrepreneurs   We’re used to pre-packaged noodles and overly salty broth.  In Japan, it’s another food altogether  and ramen culture is a big deal.  There are festivals to celebrate the various styles of ramen and if you ever have the opportunity to visit a restaurant where fresh ramen of various types is served, go.  I’d recommend finding a place that specializes in the dish and not just a Japanese place that serves ramen along with other types of Japanese food.

There is a place outside of Tokyo called 69 ‘N Roll One that specializes in the dish.  What makes it an interesting subject today is that the owner has a few rules, the biggest of which is that you must eat in total silence.  Don’t talk to someone you’re with (you probably won’t be sitting next to them anyway – it’s first come first served at counter seating).  Don’t use your phone. Don’t even read.  You’ll be eating ramen in total silence.  According to people who’ve eaten there, what is at first an extremely weird experience becomes contemplative as you become intensely focused on every bite.  Which is the business point today.

How often do we clear our mind of distractions and really focus on something?  We’re always wondering if there’s new email.  Our other projects are dancing around in the back of our minds.  Maybe we have music on as we work.  We’re all so used to multitasking that calming our minds – shutting down the other windows that are open on our mental desktops – is a rarity these days.  Maybe it’s something we need to try more often?  Just as with this bowl of ramen, the subtleties hidden by the distractions get a chance to come out.  The quick, often superficial thoughts we have on things give way to more complex impressions.  Can that be a bad thing?

Try it tonight while you’re eating.  Turn off the TV, turn down the music, and don’t speak.  How does the food taste?   Maybe it’s something you can try in the office too?  Then let us know your impressions.

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Take Up The Trombone

I had lunch with an old friend yesterday.

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As we were discussing business he told me the story of a guy he knows who had a brilliant life strategy.  As soon as I heard it I told him it was going to be today’s screed so here it is:

Take up the trombone.

A reasonable person might ask, aside from the hours of musical enjoyment mastery of an instrument might provide, why that’s such a great idea.  As it turns out, proficiency in the trombone is a great gateway into a job with high level symphonies.  Apparently, there are just not a lot of trombonists who carry on with the instrument beyond high school, so college bands are always looking (this helps with the admissions people) and professional music organizations are in dire need as well.  There are a lot of flautists and trumpet players but very few skilled trombonists.

As I thought about it I realized that my daughter’s proficiency in an unusual instrument – the bassoon – did become a topic of interest when she was looking at colleges.  The baseball fans among you will immediately think of left-handed pitchers, many of whom have terrible statistics but the demand for a lefty starter outweighs their apparent mediocrity.

The point is that as we’re undertaking new products or new businesses we’d do well to consider the empty seats in the orchestra.  Rather than “me too” ideas we ought to be thinking about the trombone player.  How can I do something that’s both in demand and gives me a reasonable chance of success even if I’m not perfect every time?  This doesn’t imply lowering one’s standards.  In fact this strategy often requires a complete rethinking of the obvious and extra time to develop the new skills.  It does, however, improve one’s chances for lasting success.

What instruments are you playing today?  Maybe it’s time to change?

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The Four Minute Mile

Late post today so I’ll make it brief.  I was returning from some morning meetings (hence my lateness) and I heard someone talking on the radio about one crisis or another – geopolitical, financial – who knows.  They kept saying that a fix was “impossible” and spent the better part of the segment explaining why that was so.  I, of course, immediately thought of Roger Bannister.

 

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Right up until that day in May of 1954, it was thought that running a mile in under four minutes was not humanly possible.  I’m sure there were a lot of sportswriters who pontificated much as did the person on the radio this morning about why that was so.  15MPH for that period of time?  No way.  I’m sure they were doing so right up until Bannister crossed the finish line in under four minutes.  To show it wasn’t some superhuman feat, John Landy finished right behind him – also under four minutes.  Suddenly, the common knowledge – and the mental barrier it imposed – changed.  Miles have been run hundreds of times under that barrier now and the record is 3:43, closer to three and a half minutes than to four.

 

We often do the same thing in business.  A sales goal is not achievable   A product can’t be built.  The person with the qualifications we really think are required for the job can’t be found so we settle on someone lesser.  Four minute barriers we can’t break.  Until we do.

 

I’ve used the Bannister example with groups before to get them to think about how our mental barriers hold us back.  What do you think?

 

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